Ok, not quite wife swap but...
My ex wife had an affair with a work colleague 3 years ago. Long story short we divorced and she is now engaged to him.
Their relationship was discovered by his then wife and as a result we got to know each other. Over the past three years we have supported each other as friends and become close. Nothing physical has happened but I have developed strong feelings for her.
She recently came over to get advice about something and we ended up drinking a bottle of wine. We kissed, but before it could go much further I stopped and said I thought it would be better if we waited until we were sober. She agreed but we both acknowledged it was difficult to tear ourselves away. I sent her a text the next morning saying I would really like to take her out on a proper date and we have decided on a place and time.
Is it weird to want to have a relationship with my ex-wife’s fiance’s ex-wife?! Even writing that down makes it seem ridiculous.