Partner children

[Kez171271]

AIBU to be fuming that my partners grown up children never sent any message of condolences when my father died 2 weeks ago.
They have known me 7 years and no I wasn't the other woman or anything!
The eldest has never spoken to me anyway but his wife and I got on ok.
The youngest I'm a little surprised at to be honest.
I've told my partner I don't want either of them in the house while I'm there.
Thanks

've told my partner I don't want either of them in the house while I'm there

That is unreasonable, and petty.

Yes it would have been nice for them to do so but did they know him? And it doesn’t sound like you have the best of relationships with them!

The eldest has never spoken to you? What never? How does that work if you get on with his wife? I'm not that surprised he didn't offer condolences if he's never spoken to you in 7 years.

I'm sorry about your dad. What does your partner say about it all?

I’m sorry for your loss

If the eldest hasn’t ever spoken to you, then I’m not sure why you thought this would be different. It doesn’t sound like you have a relationship with them, so unless there is more to the story I would imagine they don’t see you as part of their family or a friend to express condolences to.

How old are they?!