DH has 3 Sisters. We are married now 2 years and 2 or 3 months after we married I was expecting a baby, which I then miscarried and was devastated, they all were lovely to me and couldn’t do enough. I then fell pregnant 6 months later and miscarried again jus after losing my dad. I was in pieces and they were so caring. I grew closer to his youngest sister the following few weeks after losing dad and my baby and she started to withdraw after a month or 2. She found out she was pregnant and didn’t want to tell me. I don’t understand why, I didn’t have issues getting pregnant it was the heart had just stopped. I was happy for her when she told me and I gave her a hug and we talked and I wished her all the best. Then I found out I was pregnant again and she didn’t seem impressed at all, infact she made a huge issue because we announced on Facebook and she was ‘heartbroken’ because we didn’t tell her how the booking scan went that day I was 13 weeks ( bearing in mind I had a scan at 11 weeks and told them everything was fine) I mean she didn’t txt me good luck or even txt to ask how it went. Tbh I just wanted to shout out to the world I’m pregnant, and this is the furthest ive ever carried a baby! And she went mad at my DH saying we should have told them before Facebook etc why didn’t they ask me then? Plus they knew everything was fine at my reassureance scan! The whole way through this pregnancy they haven’t bothered much even his mum. We had a baby shower and the mum and sis stayed less than an hour because they ‘had to go grocery shopping’ on a Saturday evening. I went to his sisters birthday meal on the Thursday to ‘free up the weekend of the baby shower’ still didn’t stay. We get them a card and present or money every year for their birthday, I don’t even get a card. Except from the mum. They all buy DH cards and pressies lol. I don’t even care about all that I just hate how it makes me feel. It’s like they try to make everything a competition and I just want peace. I want to enjoy this. AIBU?
Oh and she announced the name of her newborn on Facebook before she had told us what she was being called. Hypocritical!