I have a neighbour, let’s call him B. B has started seeing a woman, let’s call her A. She has 2 DS’s from previos relationship. I don’t speak to them a lot but occasionally we exchange pleasantries and will have a bit of a natter.
I was talking to A last Wednesday when she was visiting and she mentioned how much she struggles with money and can’t keep up with her DS’s growth spurts. Luckily youngest can wear oldest DS clothes when they outgrow him but she struggles to afford clothing for eldest DS. She was quite upset about it and on the verge of tears.
I mentioned how I had some clothes that no longer fit my DS that I was intending to sell on a local selling site, but said that she could have them. A was incredibly thankful and took said clothes. This was around a week ago.
Today I noticed B had shared a post A had made on Facebook advertising some kids clothes for sale - they’re all the clothes I gave her, literally all of them and listed at high individual prices.
I know I gave them away / didn’t ask for any money but AIBU to say something when I next see her? I’m feeling pretty annoyed as I was originally going to sell them on myself but wanted to do a good deed for someone who was basically crying about not being able to clothe her child.
But I think what winds me up more is that I’m beginning to suspect I’ve been conned. I’d told B I was going through DS clothes and we joked about how quick kids grow out of things maybe a week before I spoke to A.
Maybe I’m just being paranoid... But the more I think about it the more angry I’m getting 