Sorry to put this here, but I'm scared and google just tells me I'm dying. Also long time never, I just always switch up my username.
So about 6 months ago i had an abortion (I was using protection at the time). A few days after, I had the coil fitted.
When she done it, it hurt so much. Like the worst Pain ever. I went white, shaking and nearly fainted. I had to lie down and then when I tried to go back to the car, I nearly fainted again.
In the end I was aloud to go home, but I was in soooo much pain.
I was aching and crying in the car, my partner said he had never seen me in so much pain, and I looked like I was in more pain then, than when I was in labour.
In the end I told him we had to go back the hospital, I couldn't even walk out of the car. It was so bad.
I got the the hospital, and had to wait for about an hour even though I was crying in pain.
A doctor took me in and put the scanner thing up my vagina. He said I had a cyst.
My partner (because I couldn't even speak) asked if it shouldn't have been put in.
He blanked him, and asked me if I wanted to take it out. I said yes.
He started to try and take it out and I was screaming in pain.
I'm not one to over-react, or scream or even make a sceane. When I was giving birth, I said for fuck sake and actually apologised to the midwife for swearing.
But this pain was un-real, I was squeezing my partners hand, and was screaming that the doctor to was hurting me.
He was tugging on my coil so much, and in the end said he couldn't take it out because I was clenching to much.
I kept trying to relax but I couldn't, I was like he was putting his hand up there and was trying to drag my uterus out.
In the end he said no it can't be done, he left and I said to the nurse I want it taken out. But I want to be put under aesthetic.
She laughed at me and said you can't just have that down, you have to wait. Told me to go home, and it wil be down tomorrow.
I went home, had the worst sleep ever. But woke up and it was just a dull ache.
After six months, my periods have got lighter and lighter. But the pain is so bad when I start to bleed.
Now since October, I have been bleeding on and off. With bad, bad pains in my belly. Like super period pains.
I've tried to feel the coil but can't find it, over the last couple of months aswell, I've been getting dull aches in my legs and arms. Really bad headaches. And sleeping all the time.
Is the on and off periods normal, after six months of just having them for a few days?
Long with the over the top pain when my period comes, it's honestly unbearable.
Can anyone help me?
Also id like to apologise for the long post, also anytime I post anything I get ridiculed for my spelling, grammar and punctuation. I'm dyslexic and apologise for anyone having trouble reading my post.
Thank you