If I am full and leave food without finishing what's on my plate he says things like 'what a waster' or 'is that all you can manage?' I'm talking a dinner plate full, sometines I just can't eat that much though, it makes me uncomfortable and bloated. To top it off, because of his bad eating habits (he's always been slim, always eaten lots and kept his washboard stomach) now he has a paunch and because he is upset and down about it decided to go on healthy eating (never fully committed but 70% effort). Now, if he sees me eating anything unhealthy he'll say little comments about it to the point I've now stopped eating snacks so much in front of him and i'll snap are you the food police? I'm miserable and feel trapped in an unhealthy cycle, we both are I think, but then the weekend arrives and we have to order food and have alcohol. when I was trying to stick to slimming world plan he would say I was boring. I lost 7lbs and felt I was going to finally shift most of the weight but now I've put it all back on. I'm a binge eater and have struggled with bullima in my youth and now I just feel so psychologically bound to food, it's my go to when I'm low or bored.
Does anyone else feel they can't make progress because of their partners influence? It's always pizzas or curry cone the weekend, I've got to take responsibility for my own actions I know, it's just so hard to lose the weight, when he's not here I don't eat as much.