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To keep the pigeon?

33 replies

Slippersandacuppa · 08/11/2018 23:51

I didn’t know where to put this!

Had a frantic call from eldest DS while I was collecting second DS from after school club. On his walk home from the bus stop, he’s spotted an injured pigeon sitting on the church wall. He’d tried to catch it to bring it home (we are a family of rescuers) but it flapped under a neighbours hedge and he didn’t want to trespass so walked home and called me.

After chatting it through (which mostly consisted of me reminding him to use his manners), he got the neighbour’s permission to crawl under the hedge (in the dark) and fish the pigeon out, with the neighbour’s readily offered help.

We arrived home to a very injured but cozy looking pigeon in a cat box in our downstairs bathroom. He has straw, fresh water and some porridge (which I have swapped for bird seed). Of course, all of the children are now convinced that he is some sort of dove of peace.

I’ve since been to book club (should be renamed booze club), have come home and checked on him. He’s got a ring, which I’ve reported (the owner lives in Yorkshire!), several bloody holes in his body Sad and an injured foot. Plus the whole house smells like pigeon. Which is not entirely unpleasant.

We are going to take him to the vet tomorrow but my AIBU is this. I remember reading a thread on here a while ago and someone said that owners aren’t very sentimental about their birds and will often euthanise rather than spend money on vet bills. Is this true? If so, WIBU to pay for the vet fees and offer him a home here? Obviously I have no idea how that would work and have a husband who isn’t hugely fond of pigeons (weirdo) so we couldn’t have millions of them. But two or three? What are the rules? I don’t want to send him back just for him to ‘disappear’.

He’s white and beautiful, if a little bloody. I can’t help thinking that the racing industry (birds, not horses - don’t get me started on that one) sounds very cruel.

OP posts:
Slippersandacuppa · 09/11/2018 22:49

Thank you for all of the replies.

He’s still at the vets. They wanted to keep him there for observation (they said they won’t make any decisions until they’ve called me. Don’t get me wrong, I am in complete agreement with euthanasia when it’s for the right reasons but if he has a chance, I’m willing to give it to him). It was the first thing eldest DS asked when he got in from school. DD announced that she had missed him all day. ‘He shall be called Snowflake’. She’s rather dramatic.

We’ve had a chat and although my suggestion was met with a shrug, I think we’re going to go for it. I love that Valiant story - never heard of it before. I had been thinking about his plight. Obviously, we are surrounded by ww1 and 2, quite rightly. All of my kids have some project or other - one of them in particular has really affected my whole family. My grandfather was a conscientious objector in the Second World War and we never really knew why, he wouldn’t talk about it. Second son (of football club game) was given the task of researching a family member involved in either of the wars so we asked my dad who mentioned his half-uncle.

After many very distracting hours (all of this has come at the wrong time - I’m trying to complete a postgrad dammit but do you know how fascinating ancestry.com is???? Do you??) we found out that half uncle’s mother died when he was 10. He went to Coventry to make his fortune. He enlisted in 1914 and fought for four years. On the 21st March, 2018, he was involved in the first day of Operation Michael (google it, it’s chilling) and lost his life: he was 25 years old.

So he had been fit and young, with his whole life ahead of him but was suddenly far from home, with no family and injured. Seems really odd that what looks like a dove of peace would turn up now.

We thought we’d call the pigeon Lister.

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Slippersandacuppa · 09/11/2018 22:51

Lest we forget

To keep the pigeon?
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MemoryOfSleep · 10/11/2018 07:45

What a truly lovely family you've raised! Good on you, OP. Smile

Weedsnseeds1 · 10/11/2018 09:24

It's definitely a pigeon not a dove and I would guess at female based in appearance, but it's difficult to tell.
Good luck and hope she recovers.

PrincessConsuelaBannanaHammock · 10/11/2018 09:28

Hope the pigeon recovers well op.
Although love the generalisation that people are making that the owner would rather kill the bird/ won't give a shit about them etc.
My fil has homing pigeons and they are looked after better than most pets. He spends so much time with them and looking after them and is very proud of them. Think it's a bit ridiculous the way some people judge everyone by a past bad experience.

tigwig76 · 11/11/2018 18:39

Any update?

Mia184 · 12/11/2018 08:42

Did the pigeon make it?

Shelvesoutofbooks · 12/11/2018 17:40

I've been waiting all day for the update

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