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Is this the right way to do things

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Iwanttobreakfreefreefree · 08/11/2018 09:26

I have posted on here before re abusive husband and he has left so it’s jus me and DS
I have been having feelings for a man I work with for a long time and kind of knew it was returned by him though we have never acted on it as he is married and I was married
We are both still married but have left our partners (not because of each other but due to other reasons) I had abusive husband and his wife had an affair
It was a works do over the weekend and I got tipsy so went for a little walk and came across him in the grounds on the place. We both finally admitted we liked each other and had done for a while and he kissed me which was lovely. I then said we need to think things over and went back inside.
Since then we have met and decided that it’s far to soon as there are children involved on both sides and we both need to be single and sort out our lives first before anything happens. We have not given a time limit as such but I said I couldn’t even begin to think about another relationship till at least six months down the line.

The issue is we see each other at work everyday I though it would be hard but the smiles and looks from him are really helping me get through.

I am right though to say we both need to work a lot of stuff out before talking the next step. Basicly though I just want to rip his clothes off (not at work obviously).

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Jaxtellerswife · 08/11/2018 09:28

You both sound very sensible and you are doing the right thing. Just think, I'm a while when you are both more clear headed and hearted it might be amazing or you might enjoy being single.
Just enjoy the flirt, it's fun!

TheBigFatMermaid · 08/11/2018 09:30

I think your instincts to take your time and sort your loves out first is a good one.

I also think that if you rushed things with him, you could well really have a good time.

You are both single, free and into each other. What ever you decide to do, as adults, will be ok!

Iwanttobreakfreefreefree · 08/11/2018 09:32

I did wonder about friends with benefits. I just need a good shag.

But I know I need to talk a deep breath and do the sensible thing

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Iwanttobreakfreefreefree · 08/11/2018 09:37

Sorry for the drip feed he was my sons teacher last year. I am a teaching assistant. So that complicates things a bit. Well quite a lot. I don’t even know if we would be allowed to have a relationship when working together.

None of my colleagues have picked up on anything (and trust me I would know if they had)

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Iwanttobreakfreefreefree · 08/11/2018 09:38

Oh I am not an assistant in his class. He is in key stage 1 and I am key stage 2

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