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To ask what your inappropriate crushes are?

89 replies

AmIFalling · 07/11/2018 09:59

NC for this one.

I am happily married with a DS aged 4. He has special needs and has people working with him to help support him.

One of his workers is amazing with DS, but I find myself thinking about him a lot and I go all funny and act really stupid around him. I have not had this since meeting DH. I actually think I'm falling for him.

I haven't and don't plan on doing anything about it. For many reasons:

  1. he's working with my son and that would ruin that lovely relationship
  2. I actually think he's gay,
  3. I love my DH and would never hurt him
  4. he isn't my usual 'type' at all so I can't understand why I'm falling for him but I guess there's just no reason for it...

What strange and inappropriate crushes have you had? How do I snap myself out of this?

Help!

OP posts:
MintyCedric · 07/11/2018 18:55

Seann Walsh...I know I'm a traitor to the sisterhood Blush

...and since seeing Bo Rhap last week...Freddie Mercury.

There's also someone in RL but it's so many kinds of wrong I daren't 'fess up even anonymously on here.

jesuispissedoff · 07/11/2018 18:57

Young Stalin was dreamy. But not as dreamy as my landlord, who is a tall, handsome Spanish man and I struggle to talk around him. I get flutters while I'm giving him my rent. It's a problem.

Marioki · 07/11/2018 19:22

In real life my optician, which makes getting my eyes tested a bit award. It's mostly due to his lovely Scottish accent. I don't know anything about him as a person.

If we're talking famous people then I've always had a thing for Harold Pinter. He's dead now and he treated the women in his life and his son very shabbily, but in his younger years he was my type physically. Weirdest crush was on a statue of Friedrich Schiller.

Pursefirst · 07/11/2018 19:41

I have two shameful famous ones, the second of which is incredibly outing.

The first is Christoph Waltz in Inglourious Basterds (WTF is going on with the Nazi/war criminal lust?)

And the second is................Jeremy Clarkson runs away forever

BlancheM · 07/11/2018 19:43

Ste off Teen Mom UK

beyondthebrink · 07/11/2018 20:04

I fancy a neighbour. I'm married with kids. So is he.
It's purely based on looks as I know nothing about him!

When I happen to see into him in the street it makes my day!

DrunkenUnicorn · 07/11/2018 20:41

Malcolm tucker Blush

Katiet123 · 07/11/2018 20:44

Tim Curry and Bruce Springsteen over here. Me and my dad bonded over fancying Tim as Frankenfurter.

Marioki · 07/11/2018 20:48

Oh I fancy Tim too, especially as Frank.

InertPotato · 07/11/2018 20:49

Boris Johnson. Wink

InertPotato · 07/11/2018 20:50

Young Stalin was dreamy.

If one makes certain allowances!

Smile
FrangelicoCandyBoughs · 07/11/2018 20:57

Ken BarlowBlush

MonsterTequila · 07/11/2018 21:15

Lol @ so many of these!

To ask what your inappropriate crushes are?
MintyCedric · 07/11/2018 21:22

Never mind Ken Barlow...his son Daniel...Wink

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