We host a weekly night at ours to watch a film, it’s weekly rota’d between us to choose - like a book club for films. There’s 5 of us but I usually host as I am central point for everyone’s office after work and walking distance.
This week one of our friends turned up full of infection, assuming a chest infection as he would not stop coughing and snorting. I’m sympathetic to sickness, it happens however in this situation I would think don’t come as I only have a small living room (it’s a 2 bed flat with a combined kitchen/diner/living space) as everyone else may catch it also will slow recovery time down if you are not in bed resting?
He’s arrived this evening, and I noticed he was unwell so offered hot tea and any medication (usual lemsip whatever) and he said no he was fine. As the night went on it was very clear he wa poorly but didn’t want to miss out so to speak.
I’ve now caused offence because after the numerous coughing I’ve said I think you need to go home and rest to get better! Which has proceeded to a fraught conversation that he is fine and is happy to be here and why I am bothered? Which escalated to the fact I only care about my job?
Now I feel super guilty but also that I’ve done nothing wrong either? If I was poorly I would cancel the night? AIBU?
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Blueberry001 · 06/11/2018 23:19
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