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WIBU to give selection boxes as gifts?

24 replies

thisismeusernameything · 06/11/2018 13:14

Shamelessly posting for traffic but I need ideas.

I'm party of a local charity that is holding a children's Christmas party. We want to give each child a gift but it needs to come in at less than £2.00. Would IBU to give them all a decent selection box each? Or would mums prefer something that isn't chocolate? Any ideas? Children will range from around 1yrs to 11yrs.

I'm obviously trying to stay away from bulk buy plastic crap?

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smartcarnotsosmartdriver · 06/11/2018 13:18

Christmas socks? We gave them to our rainbows one year and they went down well but we were able to have a good guess at shoe size, we saw them every week.

BarbaraofSevillle · 06/11/2018 13:18

Could you get packs of books from the Book People and a smaller chocolate gift?

www.thebookpeople.co.uk/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?categoryId=128706&catalogId=10051

They sell sets of books that work out about a pound each and then something like a box of maltesers or small selection pack from the supermarket for the other pound.

Cofogirl · 06/11/2018 13:19

I bought these recently. Lots of different ones on offer at the moment for £1.75
Gave them out instead of party bags full of plastic crap!

www.hobbycraft.co.uk/paint-your-own-robot-money-box-9cm-x-6cm-x-16cm/622798-1000

Nissemand · 06/11/2018 13:22

A selection box isn't really much good for a baby or toddler, and most kids are tired of chocolate around Christmas.

I think the socks are an excellent idea.

Hanuman · 06/11/2018 13:24

The other thing to be aware of is allergies - my toddler has allergies to milk and eggs so would be quite upset as I would have to take it away from him while others were enjoying them

MrsStrowman · 06/11/2018 14:28

Wow, I would've said sure that's fine it's the kind of thing you'd expect, it's a charity event not your child's birthday but clearly I'm in the minority!

AlmostAlwyn · 06/11/2018 14:36

I would have said it was absolutely fine. Me and my siblings always loved the selection boxes one aunt got us every year! But we didn't have much else in the way of chocolates/sweets as gifts...

I like the socks and the books ideas though!

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 06/11/2018 14:38

What about felt tip pens/coloured pencils/wax crayons from the pound shop, and some chocolate?

thisismeusernameything · 06/11/2018 14:40

Socks aren't really going to be workable although I love the idea! Same with books. Buying age appropriately for the people that get their tickets the day before is going to be a nightmare.

The hobby craft paints are great. I love them. Thanks cofogirl

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Bloomcounty · 06/11/2018 14:45

Will you be able to divide them into age categories, or do the packs have to cover ALL ages? 1 - 11 is a massive age gap. Some of the 7-11 year olds might appreciate an issue of a comic, for example, which is no good for the littlies.

CMOTDibbler · 06/11/2018 14:46

I think a selection box is a very normal present for a token gift at a seasonal party. You could buy a few non chocolate ones for allergic children to swap or if you know allergies for catering purposes

ItchySeveredFoot · 06/11/2018 14:48

My dd has a nut allergy so I'd also most likely have to confiscate. You'd be surprised how many things have that annoying may contain traces label.

Bloomcounty · 06/11/2018 14:48

Bubbles?

I got my friends kids a pack of these to keep them occupied during a party and they spent hours playing with them.
www.amazon.co.uk/Henbrandt-Dinosaur-Gliders-Assorted-Designs/dp/B00863F7S8/ref=sr_1_30_sspa?psc=1&s=kids&keywords=pocket+money+gifts&tag=mumsnetforum-21&ie=UTF8&qid=1541515622&sr=1-30-spons

LittleAlbatross · 06/11/2018 14:52

What about doing the selection boxes but getting some allergy friendly treats to swap out just in case and inform the parents that this is an option?

thisismeusernameything · 06/11/2018 14:56

No Bloomcounty. Its a bit of a logistical nightmare. We will also have parents that will just turn up on the day who you can't turn away.

We gave them bubbles at halloween.

I always thought a decent selection box was a reasonable gift. Obviously completely out of touch having teenagers. Good job I asked.

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RagingWhoreBag · 06/11/2018 15:03

I do selection boxes for children who I don't buy big gifts for. Even if they parents don't love them, the kids do! I'd get them and maybe a few other things (pens, bubbles etc) to keep aside for anyone who is allergic.

Bloomcounty · 06/11/2018 15:17

I'd go for the selection boxes then. Can you get non-chocolate ones? Or make up a goody bag for each kid with sweets decanted from multipacks, so the kids get a mix of chocolate, jelly sweets and marshmallows, along with a wee pack of crayons. You could use plain brown paper bags and print some basic stationery labels with suitable christmassy clipart downloaded from the internet, and slap them all over, tied with a bit of curling ribbon. I think most of the price of a selection box is in the packaging, and the contents are pretty disappointing!

MsJuniper · 06/11/2018 15:20

I would have loved a selection box at that type of event. I'm sure you could get some allergy friendly ones (might cost more but could still keep the average cost down).

Trappedin · 06/11/2018 15:23

You can buy cheap cellophane Christmas bags from amazon. They come from China but quite quickly.

Then have a look at the swizzles website. Their bulk bags of love hearts etc are really cheap. You could do a mixed sweet/ chocolate bag for much less than £2.

thisismeusernameything · 06/11/2018 16:43

Thanks everyone. I'm a bit in love with the paint your own dinosaur at HobbyCraft and have managed to get 15% off so a good buy. I've also got books and colouring books for the tiny ones.

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Yura · 06/11/2018 16:55

Pens? a selection of novelty pencils and biros (flying tiger etc are great) are good for all ages

InDubiousBattle · 06/11/2018 17:17

I would go with selection boxes with such a wide age range. When is the Event? I'm helping to organise a school fair and we'll do either selection boxes or advent calendars. I wouldn't have been happy with pens when mine were 1 and 2!

EthelHornsby · 06/11/2018 17:31

Its not just allergies - my daughter is diabetic, and always missed out when selection boxes were given

PickettBowtruckles · 06/11/2018 17:56

For the younger ones, the works has a 10 for £10 offer on books. They’re really lovely quality, decent story books. I’ve just checked and the code ‘FREETEN’ also makes postage free so you can get the 10 books for £10 including delivery. Not sure if I can do a clicky link but here it is!

www.theworks.co.uk/c/multibuys/10-for-10

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