Ok so I'm on benefits and have been for a while since my daughters dad left me and I became a lone parent. We are very civil and I've never once stopped him from seeing his daughter.
He moved back to his family home and it wasn't really suitable for DD to be visiting there so I allow him to come to my house everyday. He has recently lost his job so is here more often. He never, ever stays over. He comes for a couple of hours on a morning and again in the afternoon. Whatever he does in between is his business and this works very well for us. He's saw other people and no one has had an issue. We are just parents, no other feelings for each other involved.
I then receive a letter from DWP saying I need a compliance meeting. All is fine as I have nothing to hide. Turns out someone has accused me of benefit fraud because I have DD dad coming daily to see her.
Interview is done, Woman is very harsh and quite rude but I understand they have to be incase I'm lying. I write a statement, sign it and interview is done. She then however, started being really inappropriate. Asking questions that had absolutely nothing to do with her claiming "it was off the record". Asking if I had feelings for him, if I sleep with him because I must get lonely as a single parent. Asking where his mum is because i only mentioned his dad. (Him mum died years ago). Asking if I was on contraception. Telling me that I could be prosecuted on little evidence as I will be watched by covert officers and they will look into absolutely everything (fine because like I say I have nothing to hide). Asked why I allow him to come to my house because when she's had relationships it's ended there and then and is it appropriate to have him coming everyday.
She just seemed really really rude. Am I just being over sensitive or did she cross the line once the interview had finished. I'm not worried in the slightest, he hasn't lived with me for years. It just didn't work as a relationship. But I just felt like the questions she asked after the interview was non of her business.