I do sometimes wonder whether these threads attract Scrooge-like misers who love to boast about how much they save (often on top of huge pension contributions!) whilst living unnecessarily frugal lives
I think posts like yours can actually be quite harmful. Nobody can argue that saving is a bad thing, but posts like this suggest it’s not possible for people to save, and live well.
That’s not the case. I save a lot. I also live very well. Today, as an example, I’ve taken my family out for Sunday lunch, mooched around the shops where I bought a few nice bits for myself and my mother (nothing extravagant- some books, a magazine, some slippers, a Christmas ornament), and then I drove us all home in my nice, new, reliable car, stopping for petrol on the way and not having to worry about the cost of filling-up.
Nothing extravagant, just a nice life with plenty of luxuries. I can do this because I save. My savings have meant that I’m able to buy things for much cheaper compared to someone who has to borrow.
If I buy a car for £15k from savings, I pay £15k. If someone borrows to buy the same car, it’ll cost them maybe £1,800 in interest (very rough calculation based on 8% interest over 3 years).
If I invest £15,000 and get back a yield of 4%, I have £16,800 after three years. My money has earned me money, another person’s debt has cost them money.