Younger man or older man?

[SheBangsit]

Sorry, posting for traffic. But no doubt I'll be told I'm BU anyway!

All things being equal in terms of attraction would you pursue a relationship with

A 42 year old who doesn't have kids yet
A 55 year old whose children are grown

if you have kids and don't want any more?

I've only ever been out with guys the same age as me (within a year or 2) so I would go for the 41 year old.

Ex was 3 years younger and he was a gobsheen who beat me up, so older is more appealing. I think older guy accepts me as I am, whereas I feel (myself) that I have to act around younger guy. I try to be myself, but I can't really reveal the true extent of my madness. I've been in contact with both a lot on Whatsapp but it seems more superficial with younger guy. Being polite. Older guy I can rant about my problems.

Definitely the older man then. You need to feel relaxed. As long as you fancy him it’s all good
Sorry about your ex.

Neither

Jesus, why neither? I like both!

The one you can be yourself around. I was chatting online with 3, but the one I'm dating (it's early days still, mind!) is the one I feel most myself around. I have an offbeat sense of humour and he gets it.

Yeah - that was weird advice.
Maybe Yutes just hates all men?

From your update, I would still go on another date with each of them and see how they go.
I think in your gut you prefer the older guy.
I must say, I'm 50 and having dated a few older guys, I just won't go over 53.
Anyone older than that has just been..... well... old.
Believe me, I have tried.
But I am a young 50 and completely bonkers!

Whichever I liked the most and clicked with best. Age gap wise, I’m not bothered.

Which either one I fancied the most, age gap no issue to me. There is 10 years between me and DH.

If the younger man wants kids and you don’t you have no choice. Older man it is!