More of a WWYD. We are away on holiday and DS came out of a soft play area and said an older girl tried to pull his pants down. Then another older girl did pull them down. He didn't come and tell us straight away and by the time he did, he said the girls had left. We did a circuit of the restaurant/bar we were in and he couldn't see them. I'm so upset! He's not long turned 4 and we've never really discussed his privates being private because there hasn't really been the need yet. I would have confronted the girls parents if I'd known who they were and probably lost my rag. How on earth can you protect your children and what do you tell them to do in such circumstances? I've said he has to come and tell us immediately next time, and he's allowed to push them away if it happens again. Inside I'm absolutely bloody livid but trying to stay calm and not over react.
We were sat right next to the soft play but can't see all of it. It's not large enough for adults to follow their children in and tbh he'd been having a great time yesterday in there making friends etc. I'm just venting really and seeing if anyone else has experience of this and how you dealt with it.
Thanks for reading!