I've been reading this thread with interest. I and my family have been very lucky in that, so far, any help which we have needed from the NHS has been problem free. The service have had relation to DS2's severe allergies has been excellent.
However, I was interested to read the comments further up the thread about some bias against patients who appear to be middle-class. The only encounter I've had with the NHS which left me scratching my head was, I think, caused by this.
DS2 used to suffer from recurrent eczema. When it began to flare up, it was quite easy to get it back in line by using 1% hydrocortisone cream; however, if it was not caught early, it would deteriorate quickly and become infected.
On one of these occasions, when we were running out of the cream, the pharmacist told me that I was not allowed to buy it over-the-counter, because DS to was too young (I think he was under 10 at the time). She said I needed to go to the GP and get a prescription, as she would be breaking the law by selling it to me.
I duly made an appointment and saw a young female GP who we had not seen before. I explained, somewhat apologetically, that I would not have bothered her except that the pharmacist said that I could get the cream only on prescription for a child of that age. The GP did not deny that this was the case, but was clearly not prepared to write a prescription. She asked me how much of the cream I had left and I explained that we had a quarter of a small tube, which would have lasted no more than two days (DS's eczema was quite extensive). She simply kept repeating "well, use that then".
Whilst I was not in the least combative, we had clearly reached a stalemate. I I did say to her, "So think what you are saying to me is that you are not prepared to prescribe it, and I'm not allowed to buy it, so does that mean that my only option is to go to another pharmacist and lie and say that the cream is not for my son?" She shrugged. I was so shocked that I did not say anything although I wish I had now.
When I relayed this tale to DH, on returning home, he said, "Well, look at you". I had gone to the doctor's straight from work. I am a lawyer and had been presenting to clients that day and so was fully suited, with a smart coat and bag. DS was wearing his very obviously private school uniform. I am not forcibly "posh", but I do not have a local accent and I did look very "shiny" on that day. It would appear that I was being judged for that.