AIBU To ask someone to please explain their childcare situation, preferably with a childminder. I am going back to work after 7 years and I'm having to get a childminder. I just want to make sure I know what to ask and what is the correct way for things to be done. Such as the average pay? Holidays? Do I pay for Christmas? I'm just not sure. I'm already bummed as it is, as majority of my wage will go on childcare, but I need this job for my sanity. Please someone help!!!