Long story short, I miscarried a much wanted child back in April and my sister didn't think it was a big enough deal to contact me. I was hurting a lot at the time and wasn't myself, in fact I came close to having a nervous breakdown.
When my DM and other sister told her she should've asked after me she turned it around on herself and said that I never contacted her when her son won the league with his football club.
So she hasn't spoken to me for 6 months.
I am trying to move on from what happened to me and build myself back up again but it's hard when I see her as it brings back the way I felt at the time - so hopeless and helpless - and highlights that she didn't care enough to see how I was even though she knew I was going through a hard time. In fact she piled it on by turning it around on herself and dragging the family into it now by creating a division. It's awkward when the whole family are together.
To top it all off, she totally ignores my 4-yr-old son and husband yet she hasn't told her own husband and kids so they still talk to us when we see them at family events. So my family gets treated differently yet everything's the same with hers as me and DH love our nephews and niece (her children).
Seeing her makes me angry, frustrated, upset and takes up all my headspace - I saw her yesterday at DM's house and I'm still pissed off 24 hours later.
What do I do? Avoid going to situations where I know she's going to be there, meaning my son misses out on family occasions?
Or try and get over it - but how?
Please help.