DH has been ‘off’ with me all week. Not sure why, little things I do (or don’t do) seem to be annoying him. Some with slight reason, most with no or very little reason at all.
Tonight he headed to bed early. I joined him a little later, got into bed and started playing on the Ipad. I mentioned some errands that needed run tomorrow (not sure who was doing what); no response.
He asked me to turn the light off, I do, not saying anything. Continue to play iPad in the dark. He says the light is bothering him, so he’s going to pull the covers up so as not to be disturbed. I don’t reply, but think nothing of it. He pulls the covers up. Then does so again.
Then I hear him mutter something that sounds very much like ‘fucking bitch’.
It seems really odd. I don’t know where it’s come from, and actually wonder if it’s aimed at me. But obviously there’s no one else in the room.
I ask him what he said. No reply. I ask him to repeat himself another two times. He doesn’t say anything.
I get out of bed and come downstairs. Upset and confused.
About 10 minutes pass, and he comes down and asks what’s going on. I ask him why he swore at me, and he acts like I’m crazy. I ask him what he said, if I misheard. He says he did not say anything and I’m hearing things, then calls me ‘fucking crazy’ several times. He’s now stormed off to bed and I’m left downstairs.
I don’t know what to think, or how to feel. I feel like I’m going mad.
I don’t think I misheard, he definitely said something - but thn maybe I did mishear? But then all he needs to do is tell what he did say? He did say something. I can’t understand his reaction or his follow up reaction.