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To be unable to read this book to my children?

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AudTheDeepMinded · 25/10/2018 17:52

Took my 3 DSs to the museum today. Eldest is going to be learning about WWI soon and there was an exhibition about local soldiers. Bought a lovely book in the shop entitled 'Where the Poppies Now Grow' to share with them. Only I can't read it, I tear up on page one, my throat closes and I can't get the words out. It just makes me feel indescribably sad. I had the same problem with 'War Horse' and 'No Matter What'. Does anyone else have this problem or am I just very wet?

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MarthaArthur · 25/10/2018 17:55

Your not being wet. Its a tragic and very sad book its bound to make many people cry. That said i would read it and let them see you cry. Its a powerful part of history and crying is a normal reaction to it.

BaldricksCoffee · 25/10/2018 17:57

I can't go anywhere near War Horse. Even a poster for the stage show sets me off, and I don't know the story, I can't bear the thought of it.

RestingButchFace · 25/10/2018 17:57

I can't judge you at all. I teared up and couldn't properly finish Mr Stink! I would be a mess trying to read that.

BloobCurdling · 25/10/2018 17:58

I was dreadful for this with a lot of picture books.

Always cry at the The Bog Baby, and the Snail and the Whale where the whale gets saved. Oh and Peepo - OMG!

Spasm0dic · 25/10/2018 17:58

Its okay to cry.

Charley50 · 25/10/2018 17:59

Dogger the one that got me. Cried every single time I read it.

AudTheDeepMinded · 25/10/2018 17:59

ArthurMartha I can't actually get any words out, it's that bad! I might just get them to read it to me (both fairly reluctant readers!). Win/win!
BaldricksCoffee I saw the play once and sobbed from the opening song! People around me must have thought I was a right one!

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Picklypickles · 25/10/2018 17:59

If you're wet I'm not sure what that makes me, I choked up reading a story about a hungry pigeon (The Last Chip).

florenceheadache · 25/10/2018 18:01

i know the feeling, i can barely tolerate the cover of the book Love You Forever by Robert Munch.

mogloveseggs · 25/10/2018 18:01

I cry at blooming everything. Peepo definitely and had to read it to ds nightly for well over a year.

Gatehouse77 · 25/10/2018 18:01

I worked for someone who couldn't read Charlotte's Webb to her children.

PawneeParksDept · 25/10/2018 18:01

One word:

Dogger

Elllicam · 25/10/2018 18:02

The snail and the whale kills me every time.

AudTheDeepMinded · 25/10/2018 18:03

There's also certain songs I can't sing along too. A particular one is a folk song called something like 'The women of Dundee' with the chorus
'And the wailin o the bummer and the clackin o the laims
Brought the women o Dundee oot o their bed
And they walked tae mills and factories
And they rocht frae seevin tae fehv
And the women kept the bairns o Dundee fed'

Dunno why it gets me but I just can't join in at all!

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Keepithidden · 25/10/2018 18:03

I choked up with Charlotte's Web! And Goodbye Mog.

BloobCurdling · 25/10/2018 18:04

Oh yes Dogger! It's the big sister's kindness... BLUB

woodhill · 25/10/2018 18:05

Definitely Peepo because it reminded me of my late dgf

AudTheDeepMinded · 25/10/2018 18:06

So glad it's not just me! Let's form a society of blubbering wrecks forthwith!

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user1471517900 · 25/10/2018 18:06

I think most people would struggle with singing that song too Aud (something about women keeping children fed?). Think you probably have to be born near Dundee to understand it!

BloobCurdling · 25/10/2018 18:07

At the end of Goodbye Mog I was a heaving, sobbing wreck and DC asked what was going on so I had to explain that it was about Mog finally dying... then tried to add unconvincingly "but it's not sad because she was old and tired and she's going up to the Sun.... WAIL" Blush

funnylittlefloozie · 25/10/2018 18:08

Goodbye Mog!! Cried my eyes out in the childrens section of Waterstones reading that one. My 8 year old was so embarrassed she hid under the table.

Ive read Where The Poppies Blow, and its well worth weeping over.

AudTheDeepMinded · 25/10/2018 18:08

Bloob you're setting me off again!

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BloobCurdling · 25/10/2018 18:09
AudTheDeepMinded · 25/10/2018 18:11

I've managed a couple of funeral readings in public ok, but a children's book to my own children? no chance!

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KOKOagainandagain · 25/10/2018 18:11

I couldn't even get through 'owl babies' when my DC were younger.

Can't listen to 'two little boys' even though Rolf Harris or 'seasons in the sun'.

I am pathetic - can't even watch Dog's Trust adverts.