AIBU? I honestly don’t know.
I’m very close to a man, we talk pretty much every day (which is more driven by him) see each other often and we give each other a lot of support. Sometimes our friendship is good but more recently I have started to wonder if we’re codependent a little.
I’m one of the only people he tells his mental health issues to outside of his family and he can be very intense at times - it’s not unusual for him to start multiple conversations a day, send many messages if I don’t reply, ask intrusive questions etc. He says he’s never had feelings for me and the one time I wondered if things were moving in that direction he then met another girl and had a fling with her.
He’s just started seeing someone that he’s excited about and falling for, but is still telling me his issues. I think that if he’s going to have a real shot with her he needs to tell her the things he tells me, but when I’ve brought it up he says he doesn’t know her well enough.
I think I should stop giving him support for his own good or is this mean and rediculous?