So some background. Been with dp 8 years and we have a 4 yo dd. Our relationship this year has been strained to say the least.
DP says i snap at him constantly, my gripe with him is that he only sees the negatives in me, never anything positive and is so cold towards me. No affection ever we have snogged once this year and i dont want my dd growing up thinking no affection is normal. I dont need to be snogging like a teenager but a hug would be nice.
Anyway last night i farted loudly when we sat down for dinner, had really bad stomach this week which i get occassionally as a result of surgery after giving birth.
Dp went in a total huff cos i farted because i had farted every night this week at dinner and i did not say excuse me this time. Resulted in massive argument as i felt he was just wanting to start an argument which happened and he did not think to ask if i was ok, just had a go at me.
He always manages to turn things into my fault and never apologises as in his eyes he is never in the wrong.
My head is minced over this and have spent most of the year crying.
I tried talking to him later stating how i have felt all year, cant stop crying, feel like i cant cope etc and he just sat there. All i wanted was a hug.
Sorry for rant, really need advice. Did i over react like he tells me i always do and in fairness to him sometimes i do as i am sick fed up of his constant negativity.
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mussymummy · 25/10/2018 08:55
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