AIBU - calling me scum means you’re GONE

[NinjaTurtleMikey]

My OH has been argumentative for 2 days (not the first time) and this morning we had a disagreement about weaning baby and he called me scum in front of the baby and my 10yo. I’m so fed up. Yesterday I was a bitch and a cow for not instantly following his directions.
I left my 10yo’s father due to arguments and OH/ex upset me and the kids today so I’m just done. I just told him to leave, which he did after some more shouting. He told my 10yo off for banging his head against his knees - I’ve never seen him do that before and it’s obviously because of the actions of this vile prick. He has a go at me saying I’m controlling whenever I don’t do as hit says! He tells me I don’t let him speak when I’m just not letting him finish interrupting me!

Am I seriously being the selfish cunt cow bitch? Baby’s been saying dada and I feel like I’m breaking the family up again.

YANBU

Hope you and your kids are Ok

Hi OP. Please don't call yourself bad names - you are better than this. You aren't breaking up the family, just protecting it from a harmful situation as a good mother does. You are absolutely doing the right thing. Please get a friend to come round to help you a.s.a.p. even if just for moral support. You may be surprised at how many friends you will find you have as people are generally very supportive in this sort of situation. Please come back and let us know that you are OK.

This is why I am wary of relationships after a six year long DV one .

OP, get rid mate . You already lived with a control freak once , don't do it again . Best of luck to You . You and yours deserve so much better.