How do I tackle this

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I’m a mum of three, two have autism. We have had a behavioral therapist (BCBA) come to house to support our son for the last two years. She comes for a three hour session and charges 220. We only have an appointment every three weeks. Last Saturday I was away and she turned up unexpectedly, I had mixed up the dates! It was the first time that had happened. My son had a previous engagement so she only worked with him for an hour. My husband paid her 220. I presumed she would give us a longer session at our next appointment but she informed me today that she wouldn’t be. I’m so upset life is hard enough without being screwed over. Yes I made a mistake but who expects 220 for one hours work? What would you do?

Well obviously you have to pay. Can't believe anyone would say you shouldn't !

It's her JOB. She's not doing it for shits and giggles. She can't fill the time at such short notice.

Like every other person who pays bills there's a certain amount of money coming in and going out - she will of course be relying on that money and may have turned clients away to accommodate you.

She may even have a waiting list.

Unfortunately one of you needs to take the financial hit. The therapist did no wrong, whereas you did - so sorry but YABU.

YWNBU though to send her a very friendly email, apologise lots and ask if there's anything she could do, given how long you've worked together

What was the prior engagement that was more important than this therapist's living?

You haven't been screwed over. What you're suggesting would be akin to renting a venue for 3 hours then saying 'oh I can only stay for one' and not expecting to pay for the 3 hours or expecting to pop in and use the venue for free later in the week.

You made the mistake so I'm afraid it should be you who misses out, it would not be fair for her to loose her income.

I'm sorry, but I cannot help but laugh at the irony that the OP is upset that the behavioural specialist stuck to the rules of the arrangement. Brilliant.

I had mixed up the dates!

Then you pay her the full amount.