I have a friend who's been dating this guy since May, they're both in their early 30s she's got one DS, and he's got two DDs . I'm worried on my friends behalf because I have been with someone like him, so I know what they're like.
In the beginning he was very full on, sweet and very affectionate. Now, 9 out of 10 times when they're meeting up he tells her to take the bus or a cab to his house, even though he drives and got a car sitting outside. She doesn't drive, she's always the one coming to him. They live in the same area, but still.
When she's there, he lets her wait outside for him whilst he's getting ready. Sometimes 10,15,20 min. On the rare occasion he meets her in public, he will tell her to order the food/coffee and he will be there in 5min, 5 mins turned to 45 min and she just sat there in the restaurant waiting for him.
He works in a low paid job, but blows the money on stuff for himself, and then he's broke when he's going out with her so she either pays or they go half. One time she went out with him three days in a row and she paid for everything.
When she calls him in the evenings, he always need "to finish the game" so can't talk, but promises to phone her later but never does.
When she tells me all these things, and I tell her it's not on, she will make excuses for him. I know she's obviously in love and think he's the best thing since sliced bread, but experience has taught me men like him are lazy CFers.
What do you think MN jury?