So say to this cleaner thanks but thanks

[WishfulHope]

Need a cleaner found a few one is slightly cheaper than others. She’s supposed to be coming round later today to arrange when she could start etc go through what I want doing but during our initial chat when I gave her my address it turns out I live next door to one of her best friends.
Me and neighbour do not get on. Cleaner was supposed to make my life easier (working mum also doing ma) so I really don’t want to end up ‘cleaning’ before the cleaner comes round which I will because I wouldn’t want her going next door and telling her ‘bestie’ The house is a shit tip.
What do I do? Say?

To say not so!

Just send a message saying you’re sorry but there’s a conflict of interests what with her being close to your neighbour who you’ve a tricky relationship with so will have to look for someone else

Or will that just make thinks more awkward with neighbour? I'd just apologise and say there's been a change of plans

Can you say you decided you really needed a cleaner but are facing the truth that you can’t actually afford it what with you studying all all. So sorry, perhaps when study finishes and you can afford it?

Just say really sorry but something’s come up and you won’t need her after all. Don’t give any more info for her to tell her mate!

Yep was thinking just ‘change of plans sorry’ think it will be obvious why but I don’t want more awkwardness with neighbour!

How did you find out the neighbour was her friend? I guess she told you when you gave your address? How do you think you reacted?

Why is this even a question? You don't need to employ anyone to work in your home if you don't want too. As long as it's not due to race, religion, sexuality etc then you can say no thanks without feeling any guilt.

You have a genuine reason to want a different cleaner so just tell her you've had a change of plans. You're under no obligation to go through with meeting her.

She will probably be a bit irritated and may well tell your neighbour but at least it will be a one-off. Better for them to have this single opportunity to gossip about you than a regular one with insight into your private life. It’s really important to trust someone whom you let into your home.

Completely Mabel. Thanks all