There's a huge chance I could be overreacting here , my last relationship of four years ended as I was cheated on and I am worried I'm projecting onto new relationship of a year..
When we first met we had a date and two weeks later he had a wedding I remember vaguely i think him saying about someone fancying him there and it was light hearted conversation we had about it It was a work wedding and a lot of guys were sharing in a family room for context.
He also does hill walking and I remember a few months later he was out doing one and mentioned he saw someone from the wedding and we spoke about how weird that is cos what are the chances you know of all the hills etc
Last night he said the guy who's wedding it was said at work... oh saw that girl at weekend was asking if you were single (I didn't realise this was hill girl I thought was just a random at first)
I should have probably just left it but I had a niggling feeling and I eventually said why would he say that when he knows you have a girlfriend? And why would she still be interested months later?
I was asking well do you know her ? And he said no not very well she was just at the wedding. Then later said it was the girl they bumped into on the walk then later said he knew she fancied him, this was all confusing since he was playing dumb and first was like dunno why the work friend would say that don't really know who she is ?
I've said he's made himself seem suspicious even though I don't necessarily think he's done anything wrong , I'm just worried there's more to it however I am also worried I'm bringing up stuff from past relationships and making an innocent thing into something sinister.
He hasn't given me a reason to not trust him so far and I'm ready struggling if I'm just being a dog with a bone and let it go he obviously was just a bit smug someone fancies him or if I should not just let this go?
Please tell me I'm being stupid
NCd for this xx