AIBU?
WIBU?
KipperRipper · 19/10/2018 20:29
I have name changed for this because I don't want it associated with my current user name. Basically I am getting really stressed out and I want to know if I was wrong.
2 weeks ago a new friend Whats App'd me and wanted to meet up and I gave her a list of options for when I was available and I said that I was definitely available last Saturday night. She read my message and didn't respond and I forgot about it. My husband then invited some of his friends to come over to ours last Saturday which I thought was fine as I hadn't heard from my friend. But last Friday evening she messaged me and wanted to meet up on Saturday and I told her we had already made alternate plans and offered her different dates. She has read the message and not responded and it's been a week.
I am racked with guilt and worried that I did the wrong thing. Was I wrong to make plans? Should I apologise or just leave it? Any advice is appreciated.
lornathewizzard · 19/10/2018 20:49
You're not a mind reader so you shouldn't feel guilty IMO. No harm sending a chase up text tho if you actually want to meet up
Birdsgottafly · 19/10/2018 20:51
She should have confirmed straight away.
You can't put your life on hold.
Is she an actual Friend? She doesn't should like one.
Antigon · 19/10/2018 21:17
No, she missed her chance.
Why are you racked with guilt? Sounds like you're too soft.
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