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When bad makeup happens to good people

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Smoresleepplease · 17/10/2018 11:04

Would you want to be told if you’re makeup looked awful??
Saw one of the teaching assistants this morning on the school run, walking along with a friend/colleague. She’s quite young(26 perhaps) and her foundation looked shocking. Wrong colour and no blending whatsoever. Just a tide-mark of orange about 2cm from the edge of her face. If I was said friend/colleague, maybe I’d have kindly said something along the lines of ‘Oo, do this(and gestured on my own face a ‘blending’ motion)’.
Would that BU?
Would you want to be told?

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movpov · 19/10/2018 17:47

I would never comment on anyone's make up unless it was positive like that's a lovely lipstick or something like that. You don't know, that person might think she looks lovely and who am I to judge?

Figural · 20/10/2018 12:44

I might tell a close friend if she'd put a spot of mascara where it shouldn't be, something like that, but wouldn't say anything to anyone otherwise.

I remember being stared at by two women on a bus going home from town on a sunny afternoon about 10 years ago. I'd had a makeover in Boots and it felt really sticky and uncomfortable but I hadn't looked at my face in a mirror since I left the store. I noticed their looks and gave them a smile I hope said I hope it doesn't look that bad, but when I got out the mirror..... OMG! It was actually melting off my face, all thick and streaky and really weird. I used up the couple of tissues I had on me wiping it off, and they gave me some more, bless them. We had a good laugh about it. Benefit makeup obviously doesn't suit me.

IzzyGrey · 20/10/2018 13:49

It would be truly horrible and spiteful to say something.also just because you think she looks bad doesn't mean other people do - she obviously doesn't.

Ezzie29 · 20/10/2018 17:49

This thread made me think of these YouTube compilations which I am obsessed with:

I admire the skill involved but some of them look bizarre! I’m very each to their own when it comes to make up tho, I’m not that great at it I know but I love trowelling it on! I sometimes do it when I’m not even going anywhere, just for fun.

ILovePierceBrosnan · 20/10/2018 17:59

I feel very sorry for anyone who spends time and money on makeup when quite often they look much worse. I wish people had the confidence to stick two fingers up to the expectations of you tubers and magazines.

anitagreen · 20/10/2018 18:20

@ILovePierceBrosnan I wear makeup because I want to, I love the glamour aspect of it taken time to take myself from normal to feeling glamorous.
I also prefer my face with makeup I always have so don't feel sorry for me or anyone else some people actually enjoy and love makeup there is no pity needed

anitagreen · 20/10/2018 18:24

@soupforbrains setting your brows is when you've put a product in and then set it with a gel incase the product smudges. You don't really need to set them as most don't smudge anymore, where products have been made better but I remember at school mine smudging up my forehead and no one told me 

ineedwine99 · 20/10/2018 21:16

Thanks OP 😊

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