Totally try again

[Greysmanicfan41]

DP owns share of business on deeds but doesn’t get share of profits!

DP always pays pretty much when we out with family and DP family.

DP knows we can’t afford to pay their share yet still does.

DP brother earns a lot more than DP. Yet still pays for meals out and so on.

DP does shifts so he doesn’t get to see mates often, doesn’t want to cause a issue in family so won’t mention about share in profits.

My argument would be no stress just sign deeds to brother! So therefore he doesn’t need to co sign and make decisions, when his 70 hrs s week stresses him out anyway

Still find this hard to understand but seems like your Dh has to grow some backbone

Totally need to grow back bone! But won’t we engaged and don’t feel want to be In a relationship like this tbh

Then don’t be. You’re not obliged to stay just as he’s not obliged to change.

Is it a family business? Does he get any money from it at all?

Ah, saw your other thread.

The only one who can change this is your DP - of course his brother is going to take the mick as he has been doing as your DP is the one allowing it.

Good luck.