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AIBU?

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To have hoped for a little feedback!

8 replies

Lucaslovesfelicity · 13/10/2018 22:12

I’m just feeling a bit 😔 really. I have worked volunteering in my daughter’s school for the past two years, where a job has come up as a L2 Teaching Assistant. I have just recently completing my L2 teaching assistant course and decided to have a go at applying for the position. To be fair, I wasn’t expecting to get very far with my application, as they were asking for experience. I didn’t feel this was something I had much of ( even with the volunteering) but thought the whole application process would be good practice.
Now my gut instinct was right and after submitted my application, have heard nothing....not even a response to say I have been unsuccessful. This is fair enough, as I can only imagine how many applicants they have but what’s getting to me is that I walk past the headteacher most days and she hasn’t even acknowledged my application.. apart from the secretary stating that she had received it. I’m not wanting special treatment but just felt that as I volunteer, I could have least have been acknowledged to be told I’d been unsuccessful. AIBU to have hoped for this?

OP posts:
MarthasGinYard · 13/10/2018 22:13

So do you actually know you haven't been successful?

Lucaslovesfelicity · 13/10/2018 22:23

Martha’s gin ..fab name by the way ☺️Well I’m assuming so, as hey are interviewing this Monday.

OP posts:
Lucaslovesfelicity · 14/10/2018 07:26
Biscuit
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AJPTaylor · 14/10/2018 07:47

Yanbu and that is a piss poor way to treat people.

ADrabLittleCrab · 14/10/2018 08:10

You'll get a thanks but no thanks and some feedback after they've interviewed. I had exactly the same thing in education . They dont want to send out rejection emails until they've interviewed in case they get it wrong with their chosen candidates - understandable I guess but not when you work there and walk in to see the people they're interviewing and have not had so much as an acknowledgement!

Lucaslovesfelicity · 14/10/2018 21:38

ADrab- Yes, thats definitely where it’s heading. It is completely understandable but just feels a little awkward.... a thanks but no thanks acknowledgement would have been enough and then I could have asked for some further formal feedback. I’m just feeling a little Hmm, about going in tomorrow whilst interviews are taking place.

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MarthasGinYard · 14/10/2018 21:42

I'd feel the same Op

Some form of acknowledgment would have been polite

Butterymuffin · 14/10/2018 21:46

I'm afraid it's increasingly common OP to get no acknowledgement at all of an unsuccessful job application. Personally I think it's shit and it would hardly take much time to send a bcc email to all applicants saying 'thanks for applying but we're not going to take it further'. But console yourself with the thought that you'll be nicer to people if you're ever in a position to be recruiting.

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