Hi, background is married for 20 years with 2 kids and marriage has recently gone through rocky stage. Kids have gone to relatives for the day and we only have 1 (possibly 2 if we are lucky) child free days per year. We were supposed to go out for lunch and the afternoon in a local pub. Aibu for being upset that husband was going to that pub when he knew that there was a chance that his friend and partner would be there and we would spend the afternoon with them (no arrangement just likely that they would). There are a couple of other pubs in the area but this is husband’s local. I’m upset as this is the only time we have together whereas husband can’t understand why I’m upset.