To be absolutely sick to death of everyone and everything?

[Booksandwine80]

I really am at the point where I think I’m going to totally crash and burn. I don’t know what to do.

My DD is 18 months and I was diagnosed with PND/anxiety when she was around 7 months old.

All these months on and everything is such a struggle. I’m constantly exhausted, bad tempered, on edge.

My marriage is in trouble as I’m so snappy and cross all of the time. I don’t k ow what I can do or where I can go for help.

I do need to go and see the GP for a medication review so will obvs mention how I’m feeling.

I just go to work and look after my daughter. I’ve lost all of my interests and hobbies. My DH is brilliant and will often say to me to go off and do something but I don’t even know what to do, I feel like I don’t know who I am anymore

This was me. Exactly. I promise it gets better, my lo is 2.5 now and I feel like a different person. I don’t have advice because I didn’t cope well but I came out the other side and you will too please believe me x

I felt a bit this way after having second dd 4 months ago. I actually found myself googling PND symptoms.

I don’t have PND but it’s very easy to feel isolated and lost even years after you’ve had your kids. It’s such an awful thing to go through.

Have you had a proper talk with your DH about how you’re feeling? The fact he’s offered is great. Think back to what you enjoyed before kids. Even just going to a cafe and drinking a hot coffee in peace with a book might help you.

They do get older and you will get some time back to yourself. Hang in there, talk to the docs and your DH and keep communicating! If you stop talking to people it’ll be much easier to become more isolated.

Hugs to you

Perhaps you need to use diffrent medication? Not everything works for everybody

I know when i am feeling down because i stop wanting to crochet (my favourite hobby)

Is there perhaps a local support group? I go to an amazing one near me