throughout high school me and 2 other girls were good friends. one of us "anne" prioritised nights out etc while myself and "jane" threw ourselves into work (her) and starting a family (me) fast forward 15 years and we all still speak to each other, but im best friends still with jane, she is god mother to my children and we see each other every few weeks whilst anne I will see maybe twice a year and her and jane barely even speak or see each other (haven't fallen out just drifted apart)
Jane is now pregnant with her first child and has only told close family and friends who she regularly sees, hasn't put it on facebook etc as she isn't very active on there anyway.
I started a group chat about something unrelated between the 3 of us and jane (now at 30 weeks) told anne she was expecting, due dec.
anne said all the right things, congratulations etc etc but then private messaged me and she is FUMING that I have known since early on but hadn't told her. I told her it wasn't my news to tell. if she had once spoke to or seen jane in the past 30 weeks then she would have told her, I think janes point of view is that if someone isn't in touch in general then she isn't going to go out of her way to share the news.
AIBU to not tell Anne about Janes pregnancy? Anne completely doesn't see how I could not tell her and is very annoyed with me :/
anyway, Jane is pregnant