My friend always schedules me in. Sounds good but I find myself becoming really hurt. If we invite her out, she’s always the first to leave. She will come round for only for ‘ a bit’. She will call in unannounced and then make excuses to leave as if I am detaining her. One time she came for 20 mins!!. I thought she might not like me or I had offended her so I stopped initiating contact but she always asked to meet but then would leave early. Our friend travelled two hours to see her for a meal and she met us and said she had no money for food and then left early again after a couple of hours leaving me to walk our friend back to the train. Suffice to say, this friend has not come round again. She has been quite unkind to me about me personally and I am confused about why she wants to see me when it feels as if she can’t tolerate me? She always has a bit of a dig at me. I realise I sound like a total whiner here - sorry - but I am just not able to make sense of what is going on or how to fix it? She will text to ask how I am, I will respond and then she won’t answer for about a week?
Help! Am I being unreaonable? I’m not sure I want to see her anymore.....