help me tell my friend to stop doing the pick me dance. affair related

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my friend (mum of 3 married for 2 years) has just recently announced to us all she has been seeing shagging this other married with kids bloke for 6 months

apparently they are "in love" and have both been unhappy with their current partners for "months" (about 6 months, probz), he has been promising her all sorts while also still living with his wife who has now become aware of the situation. but still wants to make a go of it with him god only knows why

meanwhile he is telling her oh its deffo over with my wife etc, I am putting the house on the market (while no doubt saying the same tohis wife, ie that its over with my friend)

Also this twat only confessed to his wife because my mates husband went round and told her

she has been in bits today because she found out he was out for dinner with his wife and kids last night, the bloke clearly wants to just keep shagging them both, its blatantly obvious. I have told her this, I don't even know what else to say

its a right mess

I wouldn't do anything. I can tell from your post that you think married man is no good and taking her for a ride but she's just the same and maybe his mates are telling him that she's a wrong un. Who cares if she gets hurt, she went into it with her eyes wide open.

Nowt you can do unfortunately, she won’t listen and will have to work it out for herself. Horrible to watch though.

Oh she has fully ended it with her husband, he has moved out etc. She is totally serious about the other man, I think she really believed they would ride off into the sunset

if she doesn't love her husband then fair enough but she needs to concentrate on them separating as amicably as possible for the sake of their dc. And just forget about this knob and be single for a while

I have told her this too. I just feel like I am watching a car crash unfolding, and I feel for her dc, they are only little :(

I am making her sound awful but I think a lot of its naivety (sp?) she has been with her husband since she was 16. she is a close friend and I do care about her

Your mate is also a twat

*posted that before your update.

I might soften to stupid twat

no you are right duck. :(