Meeting ex’s new girlfriend

[Mamabear29]

Hi all, am I being unreasonable wanting to meet my ex’s new girlfriend before she spends time with our kids? We’ve only been separated a matter of months, they apparently got together a few days later but that’s up for debate ! I’m actually trying to be mature about the whole situation I just don’t feel comfortable my kids spending so much time with someone I have never met?

What would you do if you met his new gf and didn't like her?

Mari50 said it best...

Totally understand how you feel however YABU. And unless you want your ex to ask the same of you then i’d let it go.
Honestly, it won’t make you feel any better and it won’t make any difference to the outcome (she’ll still meet them and spend time with them if you like her or not)

XH had numerous girlfriends that he introduced to DS1, then split up.

When he met his now wife, she asked to meet me which I really appreciated and respected her for.

I’d want to meet any new partner, and I introduced DP to XH since he’d be spending time with DS1.