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To not pay the vet bill?

43 replies

brazengarfield · 01/10/2018 20:03

My cat injured a dog quite severely.

Every so often we see a man walking a Yorkshire Terrier past our house. My ginger tomcat is an outdoor cat but stays on the front or in the small forests close to our house with the neighbourhood cats.

I am mostly in the kitchen throughout the day and I've seen the Yorkshire Terrier trying to get from his owner multiple times to get to my cat who sits there with a lazy expression on his face. He's very brave.

Well yesterday evening I was tidying up the garden with my 6yo DS with me and somehow the man lost his grip on the leash for the tiny dog and I saw it charge barking for my cat. Cat goes rigid and yowls and next thing I know the dog is back in the man's arms with blood over his fur and my own cat has blood on himself. The man swears and storms off with the dog. I take my cat to the vet. A couple shallow bites on his front shoulder part and on his left side of his body. No stitches thankfully but antibiotic cream and bandaging and to his chagrin he has to wear a cone for a week.

Today the man came over without the dog and demanded I pay his vet bill of £600. Apparently my chubby 2 year old cat caused some large slashes on the underside of the dog that required some stitches and a bit of scratch marks on the face and over the eye (thankfully it did not damage the eye but just above it) I already paid £80 pounds for my own cat and I am barely financially stable so there's no way I could pay it when I just about managed the money for my own pet. Not that I want to or should have to. He should have kept the tiny 8 pound dog in his grip! My cat defended himself. Had the dog been any bigger my cat could of been seriously injured or killed.

I told him to get lost and shut the door in his face. He was outright rude, swearing and demanding. I now fear of the safety of my cat so I'm going to keep him in for a few weeks. Got cameras up already so the incident was caught.

AIBU to not pay the vet bill??

OP posts:
AuntBeastie · 01/10/2018 20:21

YANBU - he caused the incident and, more importantly, should be responsible enough to have pet insurance!

brazengarfield · 01/10/2018 20:30

Thanks everyone. I'm not sure where he lives as the route he takes is on the way to the dog park but if he comes round again I may just threaten to report the dangerous dog and ask for the £80 pounds to get my tomcat a few toys to entertain his temporary indoor life and a present for my poor traumatised DS! Wink Grin

But I will definitely keep the CCTV footage secure and call the dog warden should he come around again. There are many different routes to the dog park so I will definitely tell him to just take the longer way which is another minute of walking.

Also sorry for not clarifying! We live on a cul de sac and tomcat was just sitting outside garden fence on the pavement so not on my property.

OP posts:
Whisky2014 · 01/10/2018 20:32

No and he should have insurance

Dollymixture22 · 01/10/2018 20:35

This is why people should have insurance and keep their dogs on a lead. I hope the cat and dog are okay. What a stupid man. If he can’t control his dog he shouldn’t take it out - what if it went for a child!!

Tahani · 01/10/2018 20:36

the dog was on your property, improperly restrained, and he wants you to pay his vet bill?

Missillusioned · 01/10/2018 20:38

I'd be surprised if a few stitches cost him £600. He's trying to scam you.

WellErrr · 01/10/2018 20:39

Dont call 101 Hmm

Just tell him to get fucked, then shut the door and go do something else.

Hope your cat feels better soon!

MustShowDH · 01/10/2018 20:45

I would log with the local dog warden. This dog may well be known to them anyway. It also means you'll have a record of it.

Hope your cat is on the mend.

Hazardswan · 01/10/2018 20:45

He's in the wrong for having an out of control dog in public. As the cat was on the pavement not your property I'm unsure if he's liable for your bill.

Deffo not your fault or your cat's fault and no way in hell should you pay him.

Dog like that needs to either be kept on lead or muzzled.

friendlyflicka · 01/10/2018 20:47

My dog got attacked in her own garden by a cat and I didn't think of asking for payment.

thethoughtfox · 01/10/2018 20:49

He should be paying your bill.

Findingdotty · 01/10/2018 20:53

Definitely make a nice safe copy of that CCTV. Tell him to take you to court for it. It sounds like it was on your property so his dog was away from him on your property/your cat's teritory. Not your problem.

SoupDragon · 01/10/2018 20:57

Is your cat related to Wolverine and thus has adamantine claws?

londonrach · 01/10/2018 21:00

Dog needs reporting as next time it could be a child. Please report op and get owner to pay £80 vet bill.

SilverHairedCat · 01/10/2018 21:05

Report the dog and owner to the dog warden. He is in the wrong here, the dog was not in control. I say that as a dog owner. And a cat owner.

Sophiesdog11 · 01/10/2018 21:10

I'd be surprised if a few stitches cost him £600. He's trying to scam you.

I think you'd be amazed at how much vets bills rack up. Our labrador was attacked by a dog on our cul de sac last week - so far 3 check ups, flushing out 1 large wound and cleaning a smaller wound, plus medication, is up to £200. We were warned that if stitches were needed, it would be much much more, as its an operation with associated anaesthesia. I can see how £600 would be easy to reach if stitches were required.

Fortunately our vet is hoping the wounds will heal without stitches but more vet visits are needed.

Op, please report to 101 and also the local dog warden. We have done the former, but have been told by both vet and a friend who works in police call centre, that they wont do anything for animal on animal attacks. But at least it is logged.

The owner of the Staffie type dog who attacked ours, has at least said they will pay bills (we have insurance so it will be excess only).

But their dog escaped from house, ours was on a lead being walked by DD, so there was no question as to who is at fault (and no injury to theirs)

bertielab · 01/10/2018 21:27

No you shouldn't. Keep footage secure and please report it -could be a children next time. Dogs are required to be under control.

Aprilislonggone · 01/10/2018 21:33

Our ddog had a nasty tear, cost £75!!

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