I have have a rather tense relationship with my brother for many years, with one point of contention being his partner, now wife. But in the ast couple of years, I have gotten to like her more. We do not live in the same country so I dont see them much.
So my sister and I got an email from my brother that they had broken up. He had moved out. No more info.
Then I heard that he had moved in with another woman - his barista on the way to work (screams mid life crisis)
Then I hear from my sister that said he has be seeing said barista since April and just went on a family holiday to the beach to celebrate his wedding anniversary with his wife, then told her he had to leave 4 days early to work, which clearly was not true. He told his wife he was at work one night and signed a lease on a property to move in with barista.
Then on Fathers day (just a few weeks ago) he upped and left. On Fathers day. To go and live with barista - oh and her two children who are 1, yes 1 and 3. So she left her husband too.
My brother has gotten away with so much bad behaviour over the years but this takes the cake. We dont know what to think or do. My family are supporting his wife and two kids - oh yes one of which they adopted only 3 years ago.
It is horrific. I cant feel respect for him anymore. What would you do? I am not able to see him in person as we live 24 hours apart.