I have a lovely friend who I have known for years. Our dc have grown up together and we have been through a few tough times together. There are 4 of us who are close and our dhs get on too so we all get together at times. This friend has been invited to mine with her family approx 6 times over the past 2 years. They stay for ages and appear to have a nice time. Dc all get on well. She's also comes over for coffee sometimes, normally with others in our little group. Our dc go to a couple of after school clubs and we share lifts but it is always me who phones to organise this. Lovely friend has never asked us to hers over this time though and I am starting to feel ridiculous keep asking her - like I'm being annoying and she wished I'd just leave her alone! I am really sad and would hate not to have her in my life but AIBU to keep trying and think it would be great to be asked to hers once.