This will be our first Christmas where money will be an issue. I am normally the working parent but as soon as I fell pregnant my contract suddenly ended and now we are in the red. My partner has gone back to work but he just covers bills and food.
The baby is due December 2nd and we need to get all the stuff together for the baby rather than splashing out on gifts this year.
I have spoken to my side of the family, they understand and I will be getting the children (under 18's) a token present each.
However the inlaws are difficult, my side we only buy the kids presents anyway but on inlaws side they want to do presents for everyone and that is a lot of people.
Sorry for going on but I wanted to give best explanation of our situation.
What I am hoping is for some advice on how to tell the inlaws we can't afford it like we have before.
MIL always over spends on us and our DD and already buying presents 🤦🏼♀️ I just don't want to cause friction, they are very much a give to receive type of people as I have got to know them over the years.
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Worried about Christmas
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Yellowcar107 · 28/09/2018 12:45
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