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IS THIS GUY WORTH BOTHERING WITH

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vivprod · 28/09/2018 00:29

My friend has met this guy he is good looking and charming. She has spent time with him at his place. He has not asked her out on a date as yet, says he is interested in her and wants to get to know her better. But does not text very regularly and does not reply to her texts for hours. Is she wasting her time, is he keeping his options open thats what i think!

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MeetMeInMontauk · 28/09/2018 09:15

@poxalert wins best comment for the timely usage of an Anchorman reference.

/thread

Elephant14 · 28/09/2018 09:16

OP no one will EVER LET YOU FORGET YOU TYPED IN CAPITALS. Walk away slowly, in sentence case.

Piffle11 · 28/09/2018 09:16

Why has she spent time at his place? Did he invite her, are they friends? I think that if he's interested, he would just ask her out. He's keeping her dangling in case someone better doesn't come along. He's not that bothered. Your friend should make herself unavailable and see how he reacts. I wouldn't be 'spending time' at his anymore, without a proper date first.

NotACleverName · 28/09/2018 09:17

STOP SHOUTING EVERYONE I HAVE A HEADACHE Angry

MissConductUS · 28/09/2018 09:18

LTB!

gilchrist168 · 28/09/2018 09:22
KeiTeNgeNge · 28/09/2018 09:25

I feel it might be a bit challenging discerning the motives of a man you have never met based on second hand information... Magic 8ball says 'wait and see'.

AnotherCareerThread · 28/09/2018 09:29

I Just Want To Join In. Is It Too Loud For Popcorn? 🍿

EscapeTheCastle · 28/09/2018 09:30

NO DATING? THEN NO GO!!

mirialis · 28/09/2018 09:42

If you have to ask, the answer is no.

ciderhouserules · 28/09/2018 09:45

Someone has 'taken the time to text' so you therefore owe them an immediate response?

Where does that stop?

Get over yourself.

littlestrawby · 28/09/2018 09:46

I LOVE LAMP

TatianaLarina · 28/09/2018 09:47

BOOTY CALL

vivprod · 28/09/2018 10:39

Thank you all for your feed back :)

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