I may be being oversensitive as DH had gallbladder surgery last week and I have looked after him ever since, he hasn't had to lift a finger all week and has been able to rest and do exactly what he wants whilst I wait hand and foot on him (and rightly so, I just hope he would do the same for
me!).
He is self employed in a quite physical role and worked Friday and today, against everyone else telling him to rest but he is being sensible and only doing 'light work' and resting lots in between (only admin at home for the rest of the week barring one meeting).
Today he is working at DD school. I have just dropped them off. The entrance gate to the school is I'm a terrible spot, a blind corner of a residential road - not busy like a main road but lots of potential for an accident. As it was earlier than the rest of the children going in and the road was quiet, I pulled up to the gate barrier for them to jump out on the safest side of the road and so he is closer to school. It also.meakes it easier for me to quick turn back the way I came. I pulled towards it and he said 'we aren't going in the carpark' and I said 'I know, I'm just getting you both close whilst it's quiet and I can turn around'.
As he got out, I looked in my rearview mirror to see his colleague for the day mouth 'fuck' as I put my reverse lights on to show my next intentions. I'm not sure why he did that when I'm sure he would have known it was us, or if not then potentially a member of school staff or another parent (if he didn't recognise the car) and he is mouthing a swear word at the entrance to where he will work with primary school children all day!
DH said 'look now you're causing a whole host of trouble' and called to the colleagues car 'silly woman, silly woman'. Then he walked off with DD towards school.
I waved at the colleague in apology as I reversed out and he smiled and waved back.
But I feel so embarrassed and want to cry which I appreciate is a bit OTT but I just feel this way, I'm not usually a flower!
I don't know if I am embarassed because I made a bad call 'innocently' when I had good intentions or because DH mocked me for doing so!
Was I BU?
The road was quiet with no other cars than the one behind me which I didn't realise was the colleague when I pulled in. There is always the potential for a car to come around the corner which is why I wanted DD closer to the school as well as making the walk shorter for DH.