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Healthy punishment aibu?

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Princesstwilightsparkle · 23/09/2018 22:55

A bit shocked. I've just learnt that my DC's teacher is using a healthy snack as punishment. DC has not been punished however a small group in class were given fruit whilst the others had a sweet treat each. In my mind this is confusing, we are told to give our children a healthy diet , but they are using something we are trying to promote as a punishment. Aibu or is this a bit rubbish?

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BunsOfAnarchy · 23/09/2018 23:29

Wtf?!

This cant be right?!

Maybe everyone was given/offered fruit but sweets only given to those who were good?

garethsouthgatesmrs · 23/09/2018 23:35

That's awful if you've got that right, I would say something. If you are talking primary I am surprised they are allowed to give out sweets at all. My Ds's class used to get punished with silent reading if they made too much noise. Great way to instill a passion for reading in small children!

Bracknellite · 24/09/2018 00:08

So from this point on they will accociate healthy food with punishment.

Great template for the rest of their life I don’t think.

Haireverywhere · 24/09/2018 00:11

I hope that isn't what happened. I can't imagine that's right and what a terrible punishment of reading too.

Fruit for all plus sweets if you got a correct answer maybe?

LoveAGoodChat · 24/09/2018 00:49

I would talk to them.if I was you...using food as a punishment.t is never a good idea,

Princesstwilightsparkle · 24/09/2018 06:43

It's true apparently. It threw me, I heard DC mention something, but they are little I wasn't sure they were telling me correctly. I then heard it from one of the Mum's. How do you approach a school without being seen as precious? I get that children can be naughty, but how can you discipline more effectively?

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BoneyBackJefferson · 24/09/2018 06:53

Princesstwilightsparkle

Just go and talk to the teacher, something along the lines of

'Could you clarify something that my DC has said?' etc.

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