Argh, this a I’m screaming on here - to prevent myself from kicking off in real life.
I’ve not had any contact with my sister for 4 years / and this week my inbox is heaving. Organising a big family event and can’t exclude her. She never even responds to happy Christmas, happy birthday messages - but she is now flooding my in box - with poxy passive aggressive, can’t do this, can’t do that messages. Well AIBU to have done a fuck you, it’s organised,it’s paid for, turn up or not approach.
Long history of not getting on ( serious back history of her shitty nasty behaviour) she is a bigot, a kipper, a bully, believes in me me me me, but very conscious of looking right..... I am not fucking rearranging all of our plans as she can only make 1.5 hours at a crappy time on a Sunday afternoon.
All I wanted was to organise a nice weekend away, never expected her to turn up - but invited, hoped she wouldn’t (but she has) bullied my parents into coming home early to facilitate the 1.5 hours she can allocate out of her “non working”, “kids in boarding school” timetable.
AIBU to just want to scream. I can’t kick off, I can’t have a go, as it will upset my parents.