If a friend texts me out of the blue, I usually respond as soon as possible, we catch up a bit and agree to meet up, or the conversation ends organically and we catch up again as and when.
I have one friend who drives me bonkers. She texts me every other day 'you ok?' Or 'what you upto?' Or 'you alright?' And then continues with mindless small talk. She lives round the corner from me and is very excited that I'm having a baby. It's lovely when she comes round or we go for coffee but I can't stand the constant texting. I wake up most mornings with a message. I always reply because I feel bad if I don't but I'm getting to a point where I just can't be doing it anymore.
WIBU to just stop responding to all of her messages and just texting occasionally?
Problem is when I don't text her back because I've forgotten I get another text the next morning asking exactly the same question. Usually 'you ok? Xx'
Slowly. Going. Insane...