We always had a great connection and we spoke on the phone almost every day. When people were saying that their mother in laws are nightmares I didn't believe it... until recently ! Few weeks back she started acting so weird out of nowhere. After talking on the phone she just got so rude for no reason. Recently she doesn't give me advice on my DD but orders me to do crap. Like today she told me to go and put her in the living room to crawl not in bedroom as there's more space, but I said that the floor is dirty and that's why I've put her on the carpet in the bedroom, so she said I'm over exaggerating. She keeps on telling me what to bloody do with my child all the time... also what I find so strange is that she keeps a photo in each room from a wedding day of my partner and his ex wife (which she says she hates) and I mentioned before that I don't feel comfortable with that
She took it off and the next visit there pictures were up again.