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To ask how you would pronounce this name?

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Notss · 18/09/2018 15:45

Hi all,

Sorry if this is the wrong place:

My little sister is expecting her first child and if it is a girl wants to call her “Sian”.

She sent it to me in a text and I replied “What - like See-Ann?” And she told me I was being daft.

So how would you pronounce such a name?

OP posts:
JamieVardysHavingAParty · 21/09/2018 16:42

No-one's asking you to introduce a superfluous letter or to affect a Welsh accent.

In order: Ar is a way of phonetically transcribing the sound, that happens to only be effective for some particular parts of the English speaking world. I quite agree that it is actively misleading to anyone who
hails from a region where they do pronounce all R's, but this doesn't mean the original writer is mispronouncing it.

Secondly, having a go at unfamiliar sounds your own language doesn't have isn't affecting an accent. It's called pronouncing the letters that are actually there.

DrFoxtrot · 21/09/2018 16:51

I'm struggling to understand how 'Lorna' would sound with the R being pronounced Confused.

OkPedro · 21/09/2018 16:57

drfoxtrot
Do you mean without the R?

CountFosco · 21/09/2018 17:09

I'm struggling to understand how 'Lorna' would sound with the R being pronounced confused.

The name Lorna comes from the novel 'Lorna Doone' which is set in Exmoor (where they have a rhotic accent) and is thought to have been derived from the Scottish Lorne (also has a rhotic accent). So you should be pronouncing the 'r'.

Fresta · 21/09/2018 17:14

The r in English words like barn isn’t silent - it’s a digraph which is two letters making a single sound. The r isn’t pronounced as such but the a and the r when together make an ‘ah’ sound. Some English accents (mainly those in the south east) pronounce words with a single ‘a’ as an ‘ah’ eg bath, castle, (it sounds posh😀) I suppose you could say they add an invisible r after the a, but most Of England pronounces these with a short a. This isn’t what English speakers are doing with Sian though- it’s just how it is said and not optional- Shan is just wrong!

WickedLazy · 21/09/2018 17:24

I knew a Sian pronounced Shan, never heard it said sharn.

WickedLazy · 21/09/2018 17:26

I also know a Lorna, pronounced Lorn-a (Lorn rhymes with born).

OkPedro · 21/09/2018 17:33

drfoxtrot I thought your comment was a typo Confused
In my accent, how I was taught in school and how my children have been taught is that AR makes an arrrr sound not an AH sound

So when there is an OR in a word I pronounce it orrrr which gives me Lorrrna
How many pages have there been of people explaining that in their accent ar is pronounced ah
Now it's turned round ffs Grin

JamieVardysHavingAParty · 21/09/2018 17:50

Well, fair enough, Pedro. If there's one thing that should be taken away from this thread, it's how hard it is to 'hear' any pronunciation you're not accustomed to when you see a bunch of letters on the page you've learnt to read another way!

YeTalkShiteHen · 21/09/2018 17:51

I'm struggling to understand how 'Lorna' would sound with the R being pronounced

I’m confused.

JamieVardysHavingAParty · 21/09/2018 17:54

Hen Dahn sarf we say it law-na. I'm currently trying to say it with an R right now, and it's hard. I sound like the work experience kid on a pirate ship!

EthelThePiratesDaughter · 21/09/2018 17:55

Lawna for me too.

YeTalkShiteHen · 21/09/2018 17:56

I sound equally as ridiculous trying to say it without an R to be fair JamieVardysHavingAParty

I don’t think it’s right or wrong, just different accents make words sound different.

Be bloody boring if we all sounded the same Grin

MinecraftHolmes · 21/09/2018 17:59

If I try to say Lorna without the R, I sound like I'm trying to do an impression of the Hitcher from the Mighty Boosh... Aaaahm a cock-naaaay.

EthelThePiratesDaughter · 21/09/2018 18:00

I'm not a cockney.

EthelThePiratesDaughter · 21/09/2018 18:01

It would be Lawna in received pronunciation.

tinytemper66 · 21/09/2018 18:16

Can we agree to disagree on how my name is said regarding the R but mostly agree that Si-yan/Seeyan is wrong!?
Siân

Seeingadistance · 21/09/2018 18:20

Secondly, having a go at unfamiliar sounds your own language doesn't have isn't affecting an accent. It's called pronouncing the letters that are actually there.

But we've been discussing people pronouncing letters that aren't there, and now we're onto how to say Lorna, not pronouncing letters that are there!

Phewrrrrrrrrr!

JamieVardysHavingAParty · 21/09/2018 18:29

Specifically, with you, seeing we're discussing the short-a vs the ah-sound. Siân specifically has a little hat on (not the technical term) to denote that it has an ah sound. I think substituting a short-a sound in place of it, as if that diacritical mark wasn't there, is at least as grievous an offence as transcribing â with ar, tbh.

I've even taken a photograph of the pronunciation guide in one of my Welsh dictionaries, for Pete's sake!

JamieVardysHavingAParty · 21/09/2018 18:31

tinytemper66 Probably! FWIW, I'll go to the mats with you against anyone who tries to say there's a voiced r in it!

OkPedro · 21/09/2018 18:32

ethel have a look on you tube and listen to how an Irish person might say Lorna. We don't sound like pirates Grin

tinytemper66 · 21/09/2018 18:39

JamieVardy 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

JassyRadlett · 21/09/2018 18:40

I've been talking about the extra, but invisible and apparently silent, R that seems to make perfect sense to the English, but no sense at all to pretty much the rest of the English speaking world.

Oh behalf of 25 million Australians I’d like to remind you that we exist. Along with New Zealanders, Anglophone South Africans, speakers of Malaysians and Singaporean English, and a bunch of other English speakers (including millions in the US.)

Helpimfalling · 21/09/2018 18:49

Sharnn

ShowOfHands · 21/09/2018 18:59

Can we agree to disagree on how my name is said regarding the R

Nobody is disagreeing on how it's pronounced. They just write that pronunciation differently.

It IS pronounced Sharn
It IS pronounced Shahn
It IS pronounced Shaan
It IS pronounced Siân
It IS pronounced Shan

Vive la difference.

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