My abusive ex of 2 dc is a treat, he decuded over school holidays that because i had the audacity to ask for a contribution to music lessons for my dd, that i deserved a tirade of abuse.
We only have contact over a separate email account i check once a week.
He contributes the legal minimum calculated by cms, he decided to reduce the amount by adding his new partners kids to the claim by £50 a month, the kids added are 18 and 15 btw.
I provide all clothing, school uniform and haircuts. He thinks his £3 a day per dc is sufficient.
I have ms, i am in receipt of benefits and am single with no other income.
So after me telling him i wasnt going to fund clothing for a holiday he was taking them on he reduced the claim.
My Dc have come home in uniform that they were sent in Fri pm, returned at 9pm this evening, there uniforms smell, foisty like they haven't been washed or dried properly
Now he messes about with the reduced amount of cms by paying 3/4 days late as he knows that he has 5 days before cms give a shit
Aibu unreasonable to send kids in causal clothes that he prob won't return but are a damn sight cheaper, as he does this regularly to piss me off, that he has to sort out a full set of uniform if he has them on the Sunday night of his eow.
I am mortified that they have both been to school today in uniform that didnt smell clean.
Im now sat with washer on, yes i have plenty of shirts and spare skirts, trousers all my cost, but the pricey logo jumper and cardy i only have one each till he pays his cms late
Aibu in telling him he needs to sort out uniform he can insure is clean and the uniform i bought is washed and dried properly on my access times.