For reasons I won't go into we had to leave our dog behind when I left exh with the children. We had no where to go so no option.
A few years later exh got word that we had got our own house to live in now and then turned up one day with the dog and dumped him on us. The landlord went berserk so my Mum and Dad offered to take him but they didn't feel like they had a choice.
He's actually been brilliant for them. My Dad particularly. He's their baby.
Because of his medical conditions and his age now insurance isn't really an option. My Mum already pays out £60 a month for diabetic treatment. Almost every time I go my Mum mentions the cost and I do offer to contribute but she refuses as she knows we are struggling.
Dog has hurt himself resulting in surgery which has cost hundreds and I feel fucking awful. They are both pensioners, they have or had savings but he was our dog and he was basically forced on them and I can't afford to pay for it or even contribute.
Aibu to feel like utter shit? I'm really struggling at the moment with anxiety and I just feel so utterly worthless .